Monday, January 31, 2011, 10:59 AM
To be honest I'm having a bit of a melancholy Monday morning. This is rare for me because I am always that unusually happy person to wake up on a Monday morning and have a list as long as my arm to tackle. Somehow Monday's invigorate me. But this Monday I woke up to some very sad news about a friend from high school that died in a car accident yesterday. It made me nostalgic, it of course made me sad, it made me think about a lot of things, just as death always does. It made me think a lot about legacy, what that means, what mine looks like, what I want that to look like and how important it is to live life intentionally.

If legacy is the thing that we leave behind once we are gone, what will each of ours look like? 
Will people say we were too busy? That we were too caught up in our own affairs? I read a quote once that that said "The greatest waste in all of our earth which cannot be recycled or reclaimed, is our waste of the time that God has given us each day." - Billy Graham

I would imagine that it is relatively safe to say most of us want to live a legacy of love, of doing something that goes beyond ourselves to extend something beautiful to another person. One thing I am working on in my own life is to make more space in my life to give. If I'm not intentional about opening up time and space for people I will just be that "crazy photographer lady who works too much," and to be honest that legacy kind-of stinks.

One thing I think all of us struggle with as entrepreneurs is spending so much time working  that we forget about the living and giving part. The challenge is most of us LOVE what we do, so it is difficult to cut back on a seemingly good thing. But what I am discovering is a good life is a balanced one. I have been un-balanced most of my adult life, throwing myself without reservation into every endeavor I take on. However, I'm learning to say no more. To stop working at a decent hour. To take days off. To go get my nails done with a friend in the middle of the day. To do yoga. To be part of a community group. To be truly present with people. These may seem like small things to some of you, but they are huge steps for me. Hi, my name is Sarah & I am a workaholic. But I'm working on that for the sake of living a better life, and hopefully along the way I can create a legacy in the name of love... One that is rich in experience, compassion, love, serving others, real encounters with people, and creating something beautiful. 


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Jennifer Brown says: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 11:24 AM

I have been so unbalanced the past few months. I'm working on taking those days off, and enjoying my life more without continuously thinking of my to-do list, and I think that my work as a creative will really shine when I give myself those much needed breaks!

Katelyn James says: Tuesday, February 8, 2011, 09:49 PM

love this and needed this! Going on a walk with old college roommates tomorrow and now I'm feeling good about it....work can wait:)

I and M Photography says: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 01:43 PM

I love everything about this image.

-M

lauren clark says: Friday, February 4, 2011, 08:29 PM

I agree. I went through the same thing a year ago and slowing down, de-cluttering my life and rediscovering purpose has brought me to the happiest place I've ever been.

brett says: Friday, February 4, 2011, 10:20 AM

We all need to work on our Koyaanisqatsi:

ko.yaa.nis.katsi (from the Hopi language), n. 1. crazy life. 2. life in turmoil. 3. life disintegrating. 4. life out of balance. 5. a state of life that calls for another way of living.

amy says: Wednesday, February 2, 2011, 10:39 AM

you and i are like the same peson. it's scary. balance is hard for those of us who see possibilities in EVERYTHING. I'm sure the "being present in the moment " (have you heard Rob Bell?) and letting life not be all about work will be lifelong struggles. But the good thing about being so in tuned to what makes us truly happy, and being so reflective all of the time, means we are fully AWARE of our overworking, sometimes-misplaced priorities... and since we are strivers (to be all things whole and good and in sync) we make adjustments where and when we can - because we're only happy when we're truly.. happy.

Much love to you Sarah and Chris.

Hallie H. says: Tuesday, February 1, 2011, 01:04 PM

First thing I do when I get to work every morning is check your blog. Your photos inspire me, and your words do so even more. This post in particular tugged at my heart strings. It's so easy to get caught up in everyday life, whether that is work, school, or the stress that comes with it all. But living intentionally for a purpose, in this case to love and to give, is such a refreshing experience, and it's something I strive to do every day. My grandma passed away four years ago this Valentine’s Day, and the day she passed we found a journal she had been keeping. On the last page, in an undated entry it stated: “At the time of death, two questions. Did I live wisely? Did I love well?” For the last four years I’ve had this lesson tattooed on my foot, a daily reminder to “Live Wisely Love Well.” Every day I work to do just that, to make sure that my own legacy is one that I can be proud of. Thank you for such an inspiring post, and I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.

Hallie says: Tuesday, February 1, 2011, 01:03 PM

First thing I do when I get to work every morning is check your blog. Your photos inspire me, and your words do so even more. This post in particular tugged at my heart strings. It's so easy to get caught up in everyday life, whether that is work, school, or the stress that comes with it all. But living intentionally for a purpose, in this case to love and to give, is such a refreshing experience, and it's something I strive to do every day. My grandma passed away four years ago this Valentine’s Day, and the day she passed we found a journal she had been keeping. On the last page, in an undated entry it stated: “At the time of death, two questions. Did I live wisely? Did I love well?” For the last four years I’ve had this lesson tattooed on my foot, a daily reminder to “Live Wisely Love Well.” Every day I work to do just that, to make sure that my own legacy is one that I can be proud of. Thank you for such an inspiring post, and I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.

Lindsay C. says: Tuesday, February 1, 2011, 05:41 AM

I have been following your blog for a while now, and I have to say that I felt compelled to comment on the quote from Billy Graham...

So many young people (or so it seems) are quick to dismiss anything from a religious leader. I was surprised to find this quote here--but it was much more than pleasant. Billy Graham's words are so poignant and have so much relevancy for TODAY and LIFE in general; whether you're a Christian or not. I thank you for highlighting his words and spreading inspiration so very often.

You're truly blessed.

KELLI TRONTEL says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 10:51 PM

Well said.
That was my theme from 2o1o and continues to be for 2o11. Thanks for the reminder.....XOXO

angie says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 09:10 PM

so so sorry to hear about your friend. I hope you can have peace and comfort at this time. One of my best friends died in a car accident about 5 years ago. Although he was so young he accomplished so much in his life. He was so humble and his life was always dedicated to God and to serving others. I think of him often, when I get side tracked and I am reminded why we are here on this earth.

Sarah Steffen says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 08:10 PM

I needed this. Thanks for the reminder :) God bless

Michaela says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 06:29 PM

Wow! Thank you so much for this post. It was very inpiring. :)

mandiimae says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 06:04 PM

hi, sarah. i'm mandii, also a workaholic. i empathize:)

Mary says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 05:14 PM

The story you have been writing is one of a kind and only yours. You inspire and share yourself with others in such a unique way Sarah. Sorry to hear about your friend...my thoughts are with you today. Love you friend!

julie harmsen says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 04:17 PM

so sorry to hear about your friend. thanks for taking the time here, often, to share your heart. you're already leaving your legacy. :)

Annie says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 04:12 PM

Thank you for this, lovely :) I always need to hear exactly what you say. Very cute photo too :)

Annie says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 04:11 PM

Thank you for this, lovely :) I always need to hear exactly what you say. Very cute photo too :)

Dan O'Day says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 02:59 PM

Thank you for sharing Sarah. Your words resonate with me (especially at the moment). I am going to shut down my emails and go visit my parents. So sorry to hear the news of your friend. Thoughts are floating across the ocean xx

Christine says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 02:01 PM

So sorry to hear about your friend, Sarah...what an awful thing to have happened. Big hugs go out to you, my friend. And as for your sentiments: well, I couldn't agree more with each and every point. I think it's such a timely reminder to live a purposeful life. Filled with time for yourself, your family, your friends, and those you love. I'm going to remember this and hopes it serves as "that" moment that shifted the unbalanced to the balanced for me. So thank you. :)

Christina says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 01:58 PM

I said "no" to a committment the other day for the first time. My friend was shocked (as was I) but understood and appreciated my realistic assessment of my available time. A close friend and I often remind each other to slow down and that "being selfish" isn't always bad when it means taking time for ourselves. Good luck and enjoy Sarah time!

anna says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 01:55 PM

I am so sorry for your loss, i lost a very dear friend over 20 years ago while in college. i sometimes catch myself doing small things that i wouldn't normally do because i know he would have .... our legacy lives in those we loved and left behind.

Rich Park says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 01:05 PM

we ALL need balance and it's so unfortunate that sometimes things need to happen for our eyes to be opened to what's important. your post is such a great reminder to love and serve others. thank you so much for sharing with us!

tif says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 12:31 PM

Ohh this Pops-
I'm sending my love-
T..xoxo

Jeff O says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 12:05 PM

Hugs. Welcome to the path of enlightenment, Sarah.
Sad that it often takes a tragedy to make one realize its important to smell the roses.

AmyPunky Photography says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:57 AM

Great words, Sarah! I think I'm a workaholic too.

jess@studio3z says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:54 AM

So sorry to hear about your friend. I love that you took the time to be introspective and share your thoughts with us....you are right on. Here's to recognizing, taking steps, and continual growth in all of us!

mika says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:43 AM

Balance is so necessary for a great life. When I was in college, friends always commented on how balanced I seemed to be and for the most part, what they saw was true. Since then, now in the working world and not quite my ideal job, I often lack the balance I once prided myself on. Over the past several months, I've come closer to finding balance again by diving into creative projects that challenge and exhilarate me. It's so important to make time for family and friends and not just come home from work and fall asleep after dinner like I often do (and regret). Finding ways to do things that excite me and make me feel really at "home" and at peace with myself and the people around me is so crucial...not just to being happy, but feeling fulfilled and yes, as you mention... leave behind a legacy I hope to share with my children and grandchildren someday.

Thank you for your insightful words and honest reflection. It's been a beautiful reminder to keep striving for balance and peace and legacy I can be content leaving when I'm gone someday.

Sarah Danaher says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:40 AM

love your post.
love your heart.
LOVE your leggings.

vanessa warren says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:32 AM

i am so sorry to hear of your friends passing.
i completely agree with this post & love that i can start my week with these encouraging reminders. God has called us to serve & there is nothing in the world more thrilling than to give. We who have found favor, are called to go & that alone should burn a fire under me to drop my work once in awhile & go fulfill my life's purpose.
thank you again for the encouragement! xx

Sarah says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:29 AM

thanks for the post sarah. i needed to hear that today :)

Randy Coleman says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:22 AM

thanks for the inspiration sarah

Dana says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:22 AM

Lovely.

I am so sorry to hear about your friend. What you wrote about finding balance and making your life so much more than about what you do for work really struck me this morning as I have been struggling with that for the last year and feel like I am just coming into a new balance. Always worth the struggle...hugs to you.

Lola says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:11 AM

Your images are beautiful, + so is your spirit.
I admire your work and dedication to your art, and share the same addiction :) This post was a nice little wake up call.
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your friend, and will keep you and the family in my prayers!

@shellyeve says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:11 AM

i'm in a very similar place in life --- learning how to cut back on my own work and be more effective within a time i allot toward it, allowing me to be more effective in the time away from it as well. I want to LOVE well... :) thanks for sharing -- helps me not feel as crazy!

April Russell says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:09 AM

I am so sorry to hear about your friend. Our blessings are with her family and friends. Thank you for sharing this post this morning. It is always good to reflect on things like this. My heart beats a bit faster and my eyes widen a bit more everytime I see you post a new blog! You are great at what you do!

Justin James says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:06 AM

Love the light. It just pours in. And those shoes are great.

Yana says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:06 AM

"To be truly present with people." That is so important when talking about leaving a legacy of love! And yes, it is all about balance. Learning to balance every day for it's not something that we can just become masters at; it is something that needs to be worked on constantly.

I am sorry about your friend. Only God knows why things happen the way they do, when they do. But we can rest assured in His peace when we put our full trust in Him.

Keep inspiring, Sarah!

Lydia Jane says: Monday, January 31, 2011, 11:05 AM

Really lovely post. Provoking thoughts too. (And I definitely almost wore a red dress with yellow leggings today.)

Monday, January 24, 2011, 11:41 AM
I have been reading a brilliant book by Steven Pressfield called "The War of Art." It has had so many challenging and comforting insights into the creative process. One of the things I read this weekend that really stuck with me was this.... 

"Of any activity you do, ask yourself: If I were the last person on earth, would I still do it?"

I mean, if zombies came and attacked and I literally was the last person standing on the planet... would I still be taking pictures, showing up to the studio, wrapping my hands around the camera; or for a writer, would you still be writing that book or for a painter would you still be working on that art piece? 

It is such a pointed and evocative question that points to our true purpose and motivation for doing the things that we do. If we had no one to show our work to, no one to praise us... would we still do it? If we are only doing it for fame/notoriety, I would argue that we haven't truly found that thing that makes us tick. I have a friend, Sarah Dawn, who absolutely LOVES shoes... I have no doubt that if she was the last woman standing she would be risking her life to break into abandoned shops to get her hands on a pair of Manolo Blanhiks for no one other than herself. Because she absolutley loves the way shoes make her feel, the way they look on her feet. They aren't for anyone else but her.

For me the answer to that question is an undeniable YES. I would be wrapping my hands around that camera if I were the last person standing. And I feel grateful to be able to say that, when so many are still searching to find that thing that makes them tick. I recognize I am merely a vessel for the things I create. But we must keep our motivation in check as artists, making sure that we are doing things not for the sake of others, but because we truly LOVE what we are doing.

So what about you, if you were the last person on the planet would you still be doing exactly what you are doing?

*The photo in this post was a collaboration with my good friend Tiffany Lowry who did the hair/makeup & styling :)

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Carl Reid says: Tuesday, January 25, 2011, 11:48 PM

I would go down with my camera in my hand. But that also brings up another question..."Should you ever take a break from your camera?"

Regards,
Carl from T.O.

sarahrhoads says: Tuesday, January 25, 2011, 03:37 PM

@AnneMarie It's not about checking e mail, news, phone calls... those are tedious for all of us, not to mention, if it were the end of the world, who would be emailing you and who would be reporting the news? ;) The question is really pointed at the bigger picture...are you doing something that you really love.

AnneMarie says: Tuesday, January 25, 2011, 02:59 PM

Someone has to say no so it might as well be me. If I were the last person on earth, I would not worry about checking e-mails, reading the news or caring about much money is in my account. It's the little things that are soo time consuming and lead no where really.

The photo is really great!

kathleen says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 08:12 PM

I definitely wouldn't be spending my days the same way I currently do... I'm one of those still searching. I appreciate the food for thought, though, and the inspiring perspective that comes through in your photos and blog posts. I'll have to check out this book!

ryan says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 07:56 PM

Hey Sarah, I absolutely love The War of Art (and most of the other books you read) and I try to make myself read that book at least once a quarter.

However... on this one, not so sure. Isn't a huge factor in the creation of art the giving of a gift to another person? Isn't art about sending a message of beauty to another person? Maybe even the biggest factor? The most motivating?

Of course maybe the zombies would love your photos but not as much as the humans that are around to see them now. : )

adam says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 05:50 PM

Those would be some pretty awesomely sick photographs if it were truly a zombie apocalypse. Great point, I truly would never leave without it. I'm sure it would become my safety net... a bit of comfort in an uncomfortable world.

Annie says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 03:57 PM

Yes! I would take more photos because there would be no one around to tell me I was trespassing! :)

Blair says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 01:57 PM

Love this!
Yes yes yes!

jarrod renaud says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 01:53 PM

yeah! awesome question. We all need to save our polaroid film for the apocalypse! ya know, just in case we dont have power to run our computers or places to develop film:) haha. Thats what im doing

Jenn Stark says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 12:11 PM

Just wow. Inspiring words, thanks so much for sharing.

tif says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 12:09 PM

I'm wearing that scarf today:) I also think I'd try to show the Zombies how to use lipgloss and style their hair ;)
T..xoxo

emily says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 12:02 PM

YES! I would still be shooting. But I still think I have a lot to discover in that truth, and I still need to check my motives at times. Good questions.

ShariLee says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 12:00 PM

well put sarah. a great reminder to check the motivation behind what we are doing....and the answer to your question is a big yes!

Kevin Wrenn Photography says: Monday, January 24, 2011, 11:51 AM

I'd still be shooting, however I'd set the mode to "Shoot without Card" and I'd take the card out and shoot like nobody's business ;-)

There's a wonderful exhilaration during the capturing process that keeps me from even needing to ever see the final image. I think I'd just hang out in that space if there was no one to see the images.

Monday, January 17, 2011, 09:52 AM
"Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (or creation) there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would otherwise never have occurred.  A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of incidents and meetings and material assistance which no man would have believed would have come his way." - W.H. Murray

The culture surrounding the life of a creative forces us to embrace the 'Sink or Swim' mentality. A notion that follows gut instinct and dreams and embraces the maxim, "Leap, and the net will appear." In my experience, living this out always uncomfortable and is never easy, but a completely necessary part of tapping into our potential and achieving those things we hope & dream for. We must jump out of the boat and commit ourselves to that which pulls us forward. We must swim. We will never create anything brilliant or accomplish anything worth mentioning with one foot in the boat and one foot outside. We have to be fully committed to that which we seek. 

The quote above is by explorer W.H Murray and it is so spot on... it is amazing what happens when we actually commit ourselves to our dreams. Doors open and we see providence move in our lives. The right people come into the equation and things just start to gain momentum. Dreams aren't something we can be lackadaisical about. In my experience, we must be fiercely intentional and put ourselves in situations that force us to sink or swim. Those situations are the ones where we grow the most and realize the depths of our immense potential. If this we're an easy task to overcome we would see thousands upon thousands of people winning nobel peace prizes, writing award winning novels, creating brilliant works of art, directing award winning movies. But it's never easy. The encouraging thing to me is that I am the only person standing in my way... and if I can battle the giants in my own mind I am capable of anything. 


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erin sintos says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 07:49 PM

many thanks for these beautiful words! i'm thankful to have married a man this year that took my hand and encouraged me to jump into my own business--what a mix of wonderful emotions on this new adventure!

while planning and scheming, the only recurring words that came to me were from proust's 'swann's way' about being an "explorer of the invisible."

cheers to your journey!

erin sintos says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 07:46 PM

many thanks for these beautiful words! i'm thankful to have married a man this year that took my hand and encouraged me to jump into my own business--what a mix of wonderful emotions on this new adventure!

while planning and scheming, the only recurring words that came to me were from proust's 'swann's way' about being an "explorer of the invisible."

cheers to your journey!

Gemma says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 07:46 PM

stunning image, and a great use of the word lackadaisical :)

Gemma says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 07:45 PM

stunning image, and a great use of the word lackadaisical

erin sintos says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 07:42 PM

many thanks for these beautiful words. my husband took my hand and encouraged me to jump into my own business this year; what a mix of wonderful emotions on this new adventure!

all i could think of when planning the business was a quote from Proust's 'Swann's Way' about being an "explorer of the invisible."

cheers to your journey

erin sintos says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 07:41 PM

many thanks for these beautiful words. my husband took my hand and encouraged me to jump into my own business this year; what a mix of wonderful emotions on this new adventure!

all i could think of when planning the business was a quote from Proust's 'Swann's Way' about being an "explorer of the invisible."

cheers to your journey

Rich Park says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 01:31 PM

so inspiring, thank you for the push for the new year!

anda says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 12:12 PM

adore you. and your blog posts like this. xo.

Candice brooke says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 10:11 AM

amazing guys! Xoxoxoxo

Jenn Best says: Tuesday, January 18, 2011, 08:47 AM

Ah, Sarah! You always have such a beautiful way of saying just what I need to hear. Thank you!

Naomi Epstein says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 08:02 PM

The art of commitment is the truth we as artists must see. No matter how thick the fear piles on our hearts we must keep wiping that panic away.

jarrod renaud says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 06:52 PM

AMEN!

jeff ambrose says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 04:46 PM

can i get an amen?

Annie says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 03:46 PM

I needed to hear that. Now I just need to follow it.

Dani Marie says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 02:45 PM

My brother in law shared your link with me today. He and my sister have been photographers for a couple years now. Session Nine Photography. I'm getting ready to take a leap of faith as well and am totally terrified. But this could not have come at a better time! It's great to know that I have amazing people behind me and such encouraging words that come at the perfect time. Very motivated right now so thank you!

Kevin Wrenn Photography says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 02:16 PM

Yes! i mean YES!!!! How bout an AHHHH-MEN!!! Great post Sarah. Love the stuff from the heart.

Cool image to boot!

adam says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 01:58 PM

I absolutely adore this photograph. Looks like a still from some frozen piece of time in a person's life, reflecting back upon itself.

Christina says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 11:47 AM

So, true... so, true. I spent much of my life, waiting to be shown what it is, that I'm supposed to be doing with myself... I was confused and a bit lost, for too long. I had some eureka moments awhile back, that made me realize what I'm supposed to be doing(taking photos) and the Universe has only helped to push me further along on this path. I only need to really commit, in order to be where I want to be. And I know that involves diving into the deep end.

Kaysha says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 11:36 AM

This post couldn't have come at a better time for me!! Thank you!

Jen K. says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 11:02 AM

This is so true and I have already experienced so many doors opening since putting myself out there. Scary and Fantastic all at the same time! Thanks Sarah!

James Moes says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 10:42 AM

Hear, here. Godspeed.

Laura says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 10:29 AM

Thank-you, just what I needed to hear today...

Chad H says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 10:06 AM

How fitting. Today is our first day in the office as full-time photographers. I punched out on a literal time-clock for the last time in my life last friday. Its was huge leap, but I know the net will appear. It has time and time again.

Hannah Hitchcock says: Monday, January 17, 2011, 10:02 AM

This is just what I needed today, thanks.

Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:01 PM
Let me preface this blog post letting all of you know, not to fear, this will not become some crazy cat lady blog (although that would be really funny). This is just a little introduction to the newest member of The Rhoads fam, little miss Sophie. Both Chris and I are huge animal lovers and have been wanting a little fuzzy face to welcome into the fold for some time, but also wanted to find the right fit. We travel too much right now for a doggie and fell in love with cats a couple years ago when our neighbor cat decided to move in with us. Well we moved away from that house and have been on the hunt for a kitty of our own for a while when we came across Sophie- a big cuddly, overweight ragdoll with lots of love. We adore her and felt it only appropriate that she get a blog debut :)

In other, non-cat news, this weekend I spent a lot of time in the "inspiration cave" and I came across this fantastic quote by Steve Jobs that I really felt compelled to share:

"Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.  If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. Stay hungry. Stay foolish."
 


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Lydia says: Tuesday, January 11, 2011, 05:46 PM

You two are such an inspiration to me! I don't know how many times I've come here to soak in the creativity that fills these pages.

And your cat is adorable and makes me miss mine so much!

Kara Rush says: Tuesday, January 11, 2011, 12:35 PM

I LOVE that quote and can not wait to show it to my husband. He just quit a "secure" job to continue pursuing his passion of being a pilot. We have definitely been considered foolish...and although we aren't hungry, we do eat lots of rice and beans :) But we are both happy doing what we love.

Kara Rush says: Tuesday, January 11, 2011, 12:34 PM

I LOVE that quote and can not wait to show it to my husband. He just quit a "secure" job to continue pursuing his passion of being a pilot. We have definitely been considered foolish...and although we aren't hungry, we do eat lots of rice and beans :) But we are both happy doing what we love.

jen k. says: Tuesday, January 11, 2011, 12:34 PM

So fluffy!!!! Loveing the quote!!

Amy Henderson says: Tuesday, January 11, 2011, 05:18 AM

Our cat makes our house feel cozy and more like home. Yours looks like the perfect cozy kitty.
Great quote! I couldn't agree more!

Renee says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 10:57 PM

Can I just say that I absolutely love your kitty! As a child we had ragdoll cats and they have the sweetest personalities. Also, thanks for the quote...that came at a time when I particularly needed to hear it.

Erika says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 07:23 PM

Congrats on the new addition to your home! Love her pretty blue eyes. :)

I might have to borrow that quote too. Such a good reminder. Thx for sharing!

Mary says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 06:53 PM

Another blue eyed wonder...a perfect fit for the Rhoads. Congrats you two!!! She seems so sweet and cuddly!

Mommie Dearest says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 04:23 PM

OMG!!!! Seems like you had some allergy testing done when you were in high school and you are allergic to cats!

Kevin Wrenn Photography says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 04:01 PM

She's gorgeous! I still haven't found mine, but am still looking.

Great quote too.

hayley says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 02:50 PM

aw. i'm a sucker for a good cat photo.

Allison Suter says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 02:04 PM

Love that quote! It's one of my husband's favourites!

Oh, and, your kitty is so sweet!!

Chelsea Patricia says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 01:17 PM

Oh great. Now we have to get a cat.

:)

Lovely photos!

Jenna says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 01:03 PM

I love a good cat post! ;-)

kathleen says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:42 PM

such a sweet kitty! she will be a wonderful addition to the family. thanks for sharing pics, and for the inspiring quote.

alej keigan says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:30 PM

gorgeous kitty, gorgeous photos. i didn't even like cats before i fell in love with my first one. then i got her a friend. now i am definitely a "my cat person." i can't help but post pics and tweet about them all the time. i try! i just can't. :)

alej keigan says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:29 PM

gorgeous kitty, gorgeous photos. i didn't even like cats before i fell in love with my first one. then i got her a friend. now i am definitely a "my cat person." i can't help but post pics and tweet about them all the time. i try! i just can't. :)

Beth Wilson says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:25 PM

OMG! You will LOVE having a rag doll!!! My parents have one, Sadie-Cat (yes, we really add the "cat" part after her name too!) And my mom wants so badly for us to get one named Sophie! haha too funny! When we're home, Sadie-cat sleeps with Matt and I and LOVES to wake us up at 6am purring in our ears and licking our faces...as hateful as it sounds, we sometimes have to lock her out so we can sleep in! :)

Tiffany says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:24 PM

She is SO adorable! What amazingly blue eyes she has!

Kathryn Bradley says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:23 PM

Sophie is adorable! And such a wonderful quote...a much needed reminder. Thank you for sharing!

Katie Jane says: Monday, January 10, 2011, 12:08 PM

Ahh, so cute! What a sweet kitty. And I LOVE LOVE LOVE that quote.