Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 08:20 PM
I've always been someone with a desire to change the world....
It's scary to admit that. 
It sounds so overwhelming and lofty.
And then there is the nagging fear of falling so unbelievably short of that. 

But I am learning that "changing the world" does not have to be something lofty and un-attainable. In fact, I am realizing now more than ever, that it is what happens in the quiet moments. A tender act of forgiveness. A stranger who acts with un-merited compassion. Being strong for your family. Trusting your gut.  Tipping the local barista generously. Believing in yourself. Being faithful in the small things. A smile. Writing someone you appreciate a note. A "thank you" from a place of true sincerity. Encouraging a friend to pursue his passion. Giving someone an opportunity. Listening....

When I think about my life and where I am today, it is a series of carefully quilted moments. Those people who believed in me in the moments when there wasn't much outward potential. The friends who forgave me when I messed up. My youth pastor taking me to get my first camera. My dad telling me he was "proud," and me knowing he meant it every time. My friend Amanda telling me to trust my "crazy" gut feelings. My mom telling me I had a "gift" for people. Chris always being steady and strong for me. Jenice saying she's praying for me & knowing she means it. An encouraging note from a fellow photographer, Laura Otis in my inbox tonight. Hearing "I love that you are mine" from my grandmother this weekend....
All this to say, at the heart of every "world changer" is love.
I hope that you will change someone's world today :)
These are just some of the many things I have been pondering on my trip home to Oklahoma this week and although it may seem random, I needed to put this into the world for 'me' tonight... I need to be reminded regularly that "life change" truly happens in those beautifully, seemingly insignificant, day to day moments that inevitably move mountains.


Thoughts
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Kaylee says: Thursday, February 11, 2010, 12:12 AM

I can't wait to meet you in person coming up here in a few weeks! Love IS the most powerful thing of all and your work, and the way you do what you do totally and completely encapsulates that idea. Thank you truly for these posts, they are so real and inspiring

Kaylee says: Thursday, February 11, 2010, 12:08 AM

I can't wait to meet you in person coming up here in a few weeks! Love IS the most powerful thing of all and your work, and the way you do what you do totally and completely encapsulates that idea. Thank you truly for these posts, they are so real and inspiring

sarahrhoads says: Thursday, January 21, 2010, 09:43 AM

@tammy wow. thank you for brining me back to this today tammy. i needed to be reminded of those things today. It really means so much to know that somehow this post spoke to you enough to continue coming back to it :)

Tammy says: Thursday, January 21, 2010, 09:37 AM

I read this when you posted it in September, and it has stuck with me. I am no one, just a blog stalker, but I just wanted you to know how much of an impact this post had on me. I specifically remembered the date - September 22, 2009 - and I just came back to read it again. It creates a stirring in my heart that I can't explain. I hope it means something, but even if it only means that I need to tip that barista a little more generously today, you have left a mark on my life, and I just want to say thank you.

Julie h says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 07:10 PM

such a beautiful reminder. often I get distracted by trying so hard to become a better this or that when its so much more rewarding to show kindness and appreciation for the things and people I have at this moment, right now.

Kathryn Speyer says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 05:27 PM

Very insightful, Sarah. And true too! We're all world-changing individuals if we follow that advice.

Amanda H says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 04:28 PM

Beautiful. Favorite line: "life change" truly happens in those beautifully, seemingly insignificant, day to day moments that inevitably move mountains.

You are such a world changer. Your ability to draw the beauty and life and passion out of a person is something I have never seen before in someone else quite like it is in you. You have changed my life in so many ways... and we've got quite a few years and trips and talks and ice cream shops to go!!

Angel says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 12:50 PM

This is so true and i have been learning it so much this past year. That you dont have to do something huge and outrageous like Oprah to be changing the world.
My grandma lives in Shawnee, OK where are you visiting? I love Oklahoma! It has a homey feeling and I had only lived there 2 weeks before I moved back to AZ.

Marla says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 12:06 PM

such inspiring words! I 've felt that very same way- somedays it feels like changing the world is impossible, other days, like after reading this blog post, i know it happenes every day. thanks for sharing. " off to do my part "

Stephanie Fry says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 10:57 AM

so inspiring. so true. change doesn't have to mean the entire world but your world and someone elses world close to you, the people that you touch everyday. everyday is a another day that you can make a difference for yourself and those around you. cheers Sarah!

Alexandra says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 10:01 AM

Beautiful words.

Ellie says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 09:20 AM

Thank you. I cried because I truly believe what you say that life happens in the insignificant moments. I've learned alot this year just about being human and what does that mean really. Thank you again.

eliesa says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 08:48 AM

I love this Sarah! And can I pleeeeease buy this print for my wall?!?!?!?!

tiffany zajas says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 08:46 AM

What an inspiring post! You've definitely given me much to think about today. Thanks for sharing this.

April Russell says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 08:30 AM

Thank you so much for sharing that with us! I can say I have been in that same boat. I too have realized that it's the small things that gradually change the world. If we all could start doing those little acts of kindness and selflessness the world would be a much better place. Thanks again for putting your heart on your sleeve!

Bianca Valentim says: Wednesday, September 23, 2009, 05:29 AM

so inspiring!
you just changed someones world right now!
May God use you to continue making a difference in this vast world.
It's always a blast coming here!
Thank you Sarah!
:)

Carolyn says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 11:45 PM

Wow, Sarah. That definitely hit home and, like Allison, I find your post(s) very inspiring. To me, smiles from strangers are like kisses from the wind. ;D Thank you for reminding me to smile and for changing my world today!

Allison says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 10:45 PM

Hi Sara, This is my first official comment but I loved this post! I totally understand the overwhelming feeling to make a change larger than yourself. The beauty in the post is the insight you have! It is the smile to a stranger, the small acts of random kindness, taking the extra five minutes to write a note instead of an email that really makes a difference. This was the post I needed to read today! Thanks for your honesty and an inspiring post.

Sarah Danaher says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:57 PM

Hello, world changer. Thanks for writing, for living, and for seeing how small things affect big things. I'm a fan of people like you, because this is how I try to live.

Keep it up.

Marissa Rodriguez says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:46 PM

Beautiful post. You are amazing.

kelsee reeves says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:37 PM

sarah-
this post made me cry.
1. because it was beautiful and true
2. because the picture along side made me miss home. made me miss the encouragement from home. made me miss my flat west texas comfort
3. because i know that i too have the same dream-to change the world-but seem like i fall short of the dream regularly

your words are beautiful sarah-
thank you for sharing

johnna brynn bockover says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:30 PM

incredibly beautiful. you are. and your photograph. inside and out. thank you, sarah.

Josh Boston says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:16 PM

Great message Sarah. I needed to hear that. Thanks for sharing.

josh solar says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:16 PM

After reading your writing, I say, keep throwing it out there. I, too, can never understand why people think we need to do these grandiose things to change the world. It is the little things, like you say, that help to change the world.

One word really sticks out of your post this evening, and that word is "listening". We all really excel at talking, and I think we all want to be heard. By just listening to others, we can show how much we care, how they are appreciated, and most importantly, that they are loved. It takes a lot of LOVE to shut up and listen :)

Great post, keep 'em coming!

chad Hansen says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:11 PM

Wow Sarah. You have a way with words. Beautifully written and heartfelt. I completely agree.

Randy Coleman says: Tuesday, September 22, 2009, 09:08 PM

A good word for all of us. Especially those of us who find ourselves so busy that we often forget why we started this mess in the first place! Thank you for being an inspiration in so many ways! ~Randy